Chris Brown and Rihanna

"Words cannot begin to express how sorry and saddened I am over what transpired. I am seeking the counseling of my pastor, my mother and other loved ones and I am committed, with God's help, to emerging a better person."

So he goes ape sh!t on his girlfriend, beats her up, bites her, runs and hides from the police like a little punk, and this is what he has to say? It would have been better if he had kept his mouth shut. Let's break it down:

"Words cannot begin to express how sorry and saddened I am over what transpired" sounds like he's referring to an unfortunate incident in which he had no involvement.

"I am seeking the counseling of my pastor, my mother and other loved ones and I am committed, with God's help, to emerging a better person." This means he's hiding out with his Mommy, chilling for a minute while his boys stop by. Is he truly seeking God's help, or is somebody else's pastor stopping by because it looks good?

If he is truly sorry and remorseful he will hold himself accountable, and be sincere in his quest to make this right. That is not what's happening here.

I'm calling it. Perhaps his 'people' will try to persuade Rihanna to issue a statement of her own to take some of the heat off of him. After some time, probably after he thinks everyone has calmed down, he's going to issue another statement, equal to this one in insincerity. After that, all in the World of Chris Brown will be right again. He will continue to sing, people will continue to buy his music, and he will continue beat up on girls.

I believe this incident is just the beginning with Chris Brown. He has let us all know who he really is, not just by what he did, but by his response to what he did. Rihanna may be only the first victim of Chris Brown and he will get worse. Yes, there are two sides to every story, but only one person got the stuff beaten out of her, the police were only called on one person, that person was gone when the police arrived. I know it's still unfolding and he can turn things around, but he is not off to a good start. Showing accountability would take some character, something he's sorely lacking.

And yes, I know he's 19, but think about it. What kind of damage will he be doing at 25, 30, 40?

I pray Rihanna makes a recovery from everything she lost on that fateful night in question. I pray I am wrong about Chris Brown.

I'd like to know what you think about this situation.

To be continued.

I have no choice... I must report this to the people!

Come and Get Your Love - Redbone, 1974

On Mondays, I like to listen to music that will make me smile. This one does it every time. A beautiful combo of funk, rock, soul, plus lyrics that go between subtle and straight to the point (what's that title again?) make for a song with great energy. It's the first commercial hit for a Native American band. What do you think?

A Writer Writes, Always!

I haven't written, written anything in a while, but I promise to do so soon. Plus, I've been doing some research and the results of that should yield good material. Until then, maybe you'd like go go back to the very beginning if you haven't. I like to see people's comments and don't see nearly enough. If there's something you'd like to talk about, let me know.

Mardi Gras Mambo - The Meters

Queen Elizabeth II Has Her Own Website!

Actually, it's the official website of the Royal Family. Apparently, it was only recently launched. Think she'll friend me on MySpace? Check it out:

http://www.royal.gov.uk/

Valentine's Day

If you could choose every single thing about the perfect Valentine's Day meal, what would it be? Let me break it down:

1. Beverages;

2. Appetizer and/or soup;

3. Main course;

4. Dessert;

5. Beverage;

6. In a restaurant or at home;

7. Inside, or dining al fresco;

8. Music? If so, what kind?

9. What are you wearing?

Hey Pocky Way - the Funky Meters

Enjoy!

More Love Quotes

“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.”

-Morrie Schwartz

“I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.”

-Mother Teresa

Love Quote for the Day:

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”

-Unknown

Happy Valentine's Day!

It's no secret I'm no fan of the commercial hype associated with Valentine's Day. I am, however, the biggest fan of love. I believe you should let those you love know you love them, because there's no guarantee we're all going to be here in the next five minutes. If today's economy does nothing else, maybe it will influence people to give gifts of a different kind. Some extra time, a hand made gift (I mean a nice handmade gift), handling a task for a loved one, a beautiful meal. If someone you loved were looking to give you a gift and had very little or no money, what would touch your heart? Are you giving a gift from the heart?

Professor Longhair, Big Chief

This is one of my personal favorites. Enjoy some more Mardi Gras Music!

Fifty People Killed in Plane Crash Near Buffalo, NY

Sometimes, there are just no words. Please pray for the victims and their families.

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/29173163/

Happy Birthday, JJ!

It's my nephew's 2nd birthday! It doesn't seem that long ago he was just born. He was not supposed to be born until March 24, but God had other plans. I remember that day there was terrible weather, with tornadoes blowing through the greater New Orleans area.

Maybe that's why he's such a mess, but he's so cute!

You know he has my lips, right?

Mark Cosmetics

Guest Post from my Friend, Pepper Elton:

Mark has today’s young woman covered from head to toenails. Today’s young woman is smart, savvy and an individualist. She wants products that appeal to her own sense of style. Make-up that’s customized, compact, multi-purposed and Good-To-Go! Putting style at her fingertips! Great accessories, too! Check out my website at http://pelton.mymarkstore.com/.

Klou's ordering a bracelet. I'm sure she'll post about that as soon as she gets it!

They All Asked for You - The Funky Meters

Enjoy some Mardi Gras music!

Joaquin Phoenix on Letterman

It's something wrong with that boy:

(Story here.)

http://www.newsvine.com/_news/2009/02/12/2426802-joaquins-letterman-appearance-is-instant-classic

(Video here.)

http://www.imdb.com/rg/VIDEO_PLAY/LINK//video/cbs/vi774112025/

Angelina's Prada Dress at the BAFTA Awards

I like it on her. What do you think?

Congratulations to Stump, 2009 Westminster Best in Show!

Stump, a 10 year old Sussex Spaniel, took home the prize, beating out some stiff competition. Not only is he the equivalent of seventy human years, he was very ill a few years ago. Read more about the champion here:

http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=6852746&page=1

Mardi Gras Music - Al Johnson, "Carnival Time"

Quote of the Day

The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.

Mark Twain

Nadya Suleman - Part II, Dateline Interview

How in the world is she going to take care of these fourteen children? No one can answer because she doesn't know herself. She's unemployed, her mother is tired, and rightfully so, her father is probably tired too. I believe she's counting on the kindness of strangers. How can you make a conscious decision to have, as my grandmother would say, "a whole gang" of children, when you have no idea how you're going to take care of them? She laughingly said "It takes a village to raise a child", then laughed about how she was going to need a lot of villages! I swear, I want to smack her cheeky ass. She doesn't even know how she's going to feed them. She invited any authority to visit her home at any time, so they can see the love. Does she really believe that's all it takes? Love is not going to feed, clothe, educate and keep a roof over these fifteen people. If that were the case, we wouldn't have all these homeless families. I'm sure love they love each other. This just burns me up.
Okay, now I am looking at pictures of this crazy wench as a child. She was a cute little girl, and...

I TOLD y'all those were not her lips! (Oh, yes I heard her deny it to the producers. That is a fuggin lie.) You know what else? I don't think that's her original nose. I'm telling you, she's trying to morph into Angelina but she just looks like a freakshow, with her crazy a$$. She was pretty before she did all that to herself. Why don't people leave well enough alone?

Ann Curry said that Suleman was not paid for this interview.

This is neither here nor there, but the children are just beautiful.

This is not finished unfolding, and I suspect it's going to be ugly.

Pray for these children, and their crazy assed, trifling mama.

To be continued.

Mardi Gras Facts - Tradition - Greasing of the Poles

Yes, you read right - pole greasing. You see, at one time Mardi Gras revelers on Bourbon Street were getting so caught up, they were actually climbing the poles all the way up to the balcony. Cheeky, huh!

Well, the Royal Sonesta Hotel started a tradition that's now practiced all along Bourbon Street. Each year, at the start of Mardi Gras, there is a pole-greasing ceremony, where containers of petroleum jelly are brought out on trays. The jelly is then scooped out by costumers and rubbed up and down the pole to ensure separation of the wild people on the ground from the wild people in the balcony. The pole rubbing is very dramatic - glean from that whatever you will, or view it here:



Have you ever experienced Carnival partying from a balcony? How about in the Quarter? What is your favorite Mardi Gras experience?

For those of you who have never experienced Mardi Gras but may be curious, what would you like to know about the holiday? I will answer your questions accurately and to the best of my abilty.

'Cause it's Raining in the Big Easy!

Remember this?

Nadya Suleman - This Broad is Crazy, and Those Are NOT her Lips!

Obviously, she is severely mentally ill, and here's what I also think: she's trying to be Angelina! The dyed, dark hair, the lip filler (I know real lips when I see 'em), and all those babies. Mark my words, it's going to come out that she has some unnatural obsession with Angelina. Well, I guess because she has the most children, in her sick mind she's 'won.' What infuriates me is, who suffers as a result of her selfish, sick behavior? Fourteen innocent children, and the parents who seemed to give her a good life and now, when they should be taking it easy, have to give it up as a result of her craziness. What went wrong?

Who's Gonna Make the Donuts?

Some more well known companies are in danger of surviving this year, including KRISPY KREME?!

Say it ain't so!

http://finance.yahoo.com/news/15-Companies-That-Might-Not-usnews-14279875.html

Monday

Good Morning People,

It's Monday, and for most of us it's back to the grind of the work week. How was your weekend? The weather was so nice, I left the back door open. Sasha took full advantage, chilling on the balcony with her eyes closed as the breeze blew through her hair.

That is, until I took her picture (she hates to have her picture taken).

Me? Oh, I had stuff to do and didn't have time to sit and chill.

Maybe next weekend.

From a Friend in my Inbox:

Earlier today, as I was loading groceries onto the belt, my innocent looking cashier asked me if I was using food stamps. I replied politely oh no, debit card. Then she proceeds to talk about how high the prices are at this store (Winn-Dixie). She said she rings people up and they always complain about how high the prices were. I replied, yes but I don't have a choice so there you go! So she proceeds to scan my groceries and I glance at the screen and see 98.00 something. All of a sudden, after a few more scans it went to 140 or 150. I'm wondering about what I have on the belt that costs so much. I scan the totals and see and entry for AMEX - 55.00, and I asked her about it. She picks up an Am Express gift card and asked me was it my card. I told her no. She said "Oh, I'll delete it", and takes it off the bill. I was soooooo suspicious at that point and she was very uneasy. I finished, paid my bill, checked my receipt and left. I will call that store and report that but felt I would wait a day so as to not reveal who might have reported her.No telling how many people they have scammed. She would have added that in and if I did not check the screen or receipt, had a card loaded with 50.00 at my expense. If a customer called after going home and denied ever getting a card, they would never believe it. AND TRUST ME, I looked, and there was NO PLACE around the register for it to FALL ON THE BELT and it WAS NOT ON THE BELT WHEN I LOADED MY GROCERIES! They are up to NO GOOD! This is SHAMEFUL.....

Sunday

Today, I'm headed out to Tarjay to buy a cd cleaning kit. My laptop cd player would not recognize any cd, but troubleshooting determined that everything was working fine. It also played dvds with no problem. I suspected the cd lens just needed a cleaning.

This morning, I had a leisurely breakfast as I perused the newspaper and viewed a Mardi Gras documentary on our local PBS affilliate,WYES, and it put me in the mood for some Mardi Gras music. So, I put said music in my stereo cd player couldn't get that to play, either. I was pissed! It has to be a dirty cd/cd player.

It's a beautiful day: cool temperatures and bright sunshine. I have simple tasks to accomplish today, but who knows what this day holds?

What are you doing today?

Whitney, We Have Missed You!

http://www.newsvine.com/_news/2009/02/08/2408815-whitney-houston-makes-triumphant-comeback-at-party

Red Beans Recipe

Just so you know, they are delicious!

Ingredients

2 tbsp. olive oil

1 onion, chopped

1 bell pepper, chopped

1/2 -1 tsp. cayenne pepper, depending on your 'heat' preference

1/2 tsp. black pepper

1 tsp. dried thyme

2 bay leaves

2 tbsp. chopped or minced garlic

1-2 lbs. seasoning meat*

1 standard package of smoked sausage, sliced to your liking

1 lb package of dried red beans, preferably soaked overnight and drained

9-12 cups of water

1 tsp. salt

Cooked rice

Directions

Heat the olive oil in a large, thick bottomed saucepan over medium heat. Saute the onion and bell pepper for about 5 minutes. Add the bay leaves, cayenne, black pepper, thyme and seasoning meat (not the sausage) and saute for about another 5. Add the beans, garlic, and enough water to cover all ingredients. Bring to a boil, then reduce the heat to medium, and simmer for about two hours. Add water if necessary. Using your spoon and the sides of the pot, mash the beans. Continue to cook, stirring occasionally, for about 1/2 an hour. Add the sausage and cook for another 1/2 hour. At this time, taste to see if salt is necessary. If so, add it to your liking. Cook for another hour, or until the beans are creamy. Again, stir occasionally and add water if it becomes too thick. The mixture should be creamy, almost like a thick soup. Remove bay leaves before serving over rice.

* seasoning ham, ham hocks, smoked turkey necks, pickled meat, pickled rib tips. When considering weight, take into account the weight of any bones. You want one pound of meat. Also, consider that some of this meat is fatter than others, with the turkey being the leanest, of course.

Variations

Many recipes include celery. I'm not fond of the taste of celery, so I didn't add it. Also, I can take or leave parsley and didn't add it this time simply because I was out. Play around with the onion and bell pepper, too. Just get in there and make it yours.

I know someone who added liquid smoke to their beans. They were delicious.

I like to eat my beans with hot sauce, and I use all different kinds. Today, I used Crystal Hot Sauce. For this dish, instead of my all time favorite rice, basmati, I use extra long grain white rice, preferably Uncle Ben's or Zatarain's. A nice piece of warmed French bread would be a perfect finishing touch. If French bread is not available, brown and serve type rolls will do nicely.

I hope you try this recipe, maybe adding your own special touches, and let me know how it turns out. As always, if you have any questions, comment or email me.

Bon appétit!

Saturday Morning

What are you all doing today?

And I don't know why I feel like I should have something here in the morning. Nobody visits me, anyway, humph!

Friday, Random Stuff

I came home from work a little early, which is not unusual for a Friday. I took fifteen from the hundred shrimp rounds I have in a box in the freezer, put them in the toaster oven and warmed them. Delicious!

I washed them down with a beverage I made using my blender for the first time. It's delicious, too! I put a little of this in it, courtesy of my son's girlfriend, Stormy:

It has mango and black pepper. What's not to like?

Cinzia is doing much better with going up and down the stairs. I still have to retrieve her at times, but it's not like it was when she would wait for me to tote her little behind down the stairs, and then wait for me to get her and bring her back up when she was ready to come up Who does she think she is?

I have a friend I've known since I was about ten. For the last few years, her idiotic, self destructive behavior has tried my patience, and the very few friends she has are ignored in favor of any man she could have just met last week. Our history meant something to me, but the truth is, we have very little in common. It is difficult to have even the simplest conversation with her. Recently, she commited what I consider a major indiscretion, then treated it like it was nothing, tried to deflect everything and came up with every weak excuse in the book insted of just apologizing. I really think this was the last straw. On top of everything else I don't trust her, and I have lost what little respect I had for her.

That guy on the Match.com commercial who talks about cheeseburgers, has long braids in a long ponytail with a hat and eats a Hostess cupcake at the end? Name is junkfoodie? Works on my nerves.

Remember the Honeycomb Hideout?

I can't wait to do my planting plant next month.

I think my son thinks he has to tell me how to do everything. Yes, he's smart, but where does he think he got it?

I wish my friend (another one) would change her disposition in her relationship. She has given him the upper hand and he has no reason whatsoever, to make much of an effort. A friend and I were discussing this type of predicament, and it really has me thinking.

When I think of what Robert did to my air conditioner and my window, I want to hit him with my baseball bat.

The one person who de-friended me on MySpace a few months ago is an alcoholic who talks too much and has extremely unfortunate features. I mean eyes, nose, mouth, even his teeth, just messed up. His pride was hurt because I wasn't quick to show the type of affection he wanted. I was trying to take my time and get to know him better, hoping I would like him so much his looks wouldn't matter, but all he talked about was himself, and about all the women who wanted him for a husband, but of course, he just didn't want that. Maybe it was a combination of the face and the attitude, but every time I saw that face, he was either talking smack or trying to get all up over me, and it made me want to upchuck. The only information he wanted about me was in relationship to how he could benefit from it. Uh, no thank you. I really think I could have gotten used to his looks if he wasn't such a jerk, but this combination is not a good one. He ended things with me when I confronted him about his behavior and he couldn't take hearing about himself. I think he had been down this road so many times he knew just what to do. There were no tears over the loss of the "relationship," but being rejected by a jerk with an ugly face? That hurt. He loves to say he's single by choice. Translation: He has no choice. He doesn't know how to act, women for some reason don't stick around long and when they leave, it's on bad terms (he has a bad track record). He still gets drunk every weekend to avoid the life he wishes were different. Listen up, buddy! You have some things working for you: you're intelligent, neat, have a nice family, you can cook, you actually can relate to women on some level, and you have a sense of humor. Take inventory of your behavior, change what you don't like and perhaps you can settle down with a nice girl and have some funny-looking kids of your own! Hell, you'll love 'em. That's all.

Etta James really and truly does need to be quiet. Stop talking. Just sing, Blondie. Really.

I always eat more when something bothers me. Something must be bothering the hell out of me.

I am looking forward to setting up my pantry tomorrow, and getting the basement together. I have to get the floors ready for me to stain the concrete. Looking forward to that, too. I really must get out more.

I sure do like firefighters. Laughing out loud at that one.

I bought some leopard print sheets because my grandmother had some just like it. I hope they're just as soft as I remember hers were.

I miss both my grandmothers. They were very different about almost everything. One thing they had in common (besides four grandchildren)? They both threw down in the kitchen. I like to think I got 'it' from both of them, 'cause I don't play, either. Maw-Maw Weezie's drink of choice? Tom Collins, only on special occasions. Grandma's fave? Justerini & Brooks Scotch, better known as J&B. Every day.

An aside: Truman Capote drank J&B exclusively, but only called it by its formal name. When he would travel, he'd go into a liquor store an ask for Justerini & Brooks. If the clerk did not recognize the formal name, Capote would never let them know it's J&B. Even if he saw it on the shelf, he would walk out without it rather than call it J&B, or enlightening the clerk. I do not know why.

Our Mayor and City Council have stopped fighting over the waste management contract. Thank goodness. It was turning into a circus.

Sidney Torres is just as cute as he can be.

New Orleans may have its problems, but I often thank God for the blessing of being born here.

There's a sweet smell that hits me when I'm in an old New Orleans neighborhood. The smell takes me back to my childhood. I still don't know what it is.

I can't imagine what you'd have to pay me to sleep in that FEMA trailer again.

I detest insincerity.

I also hate when people know they're going to be on television, yet they show up looking jacked up. Comb your hair! Put on some Chap Stick! Think of others!

I want to go to the Krewe de View parade tomorrow, but I don't know anyone who wants to go.

Okay, I'll stop now, although I have much more.

What's random with you?

Rebirth Brass Band - Do Watcha Wanna

Enjoy some Mardi Gras music.

This is the Rebirth Brass Band in the French Quarter, celebrating the start of Jazz Fest, 2008:

Sleepy Time

Question: How many hours of sleep do you typically get per night? Do you feel rested when you wake? Do you try to make up for it on the weekends?

Two Wines I Like...

Bogle's Cabernet Sauvignon and Petite Syrah, both from 2006. In addition to being good wines, they're moderately priced at around $10.00 a bottle. Win-win! Talk to me - Have you tried this wine? Tell me about the wines you like.

Red Beans

I know I promised recipes in the future, but here's the thing:

Like most cooks, unless it is a brand new dish, I do not cook with, or follow, a recipe. For the purposes of posting a recipe here, what I will do is cook like I usually do, but measure and write down every ingredient and action. Oh, the lengths I go to for my fans - all 3 of you!

This weekend, I will probably cook red beans. While Monday is the official "Red Bean Day", it's not unusual to have red beans on a Saturday. (Oddly enough, it's not really considered a Sunday meal - I don't know why, it just isn't.) Hopefully I'll have a recipe for you and some pics of the finished product. The picture shown is not my creation, but I chose it because it looks pretty good for restaurant red beans.

Also, I will offer variations of New Orleans style red beans. I have seen recipes from other places that use sugar, carrots, or some other weirdness in their beans. Uh, yeah, they can miss me with that - you will not see that here. I hope you give mine a try and enjoy.

Quote of the Day

"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own
reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the
mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is
enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day.
Never lose a holy curiosity.”

Albert Einstein, 1879 - 1955

Life

Tonight is the season premiere of Life. I became a fan last season. When the show began I swore I would never watch it because I thought it was ridiculous that Damian Lewis would have his own show. I mean, how could they give this pasty, red-headed, freckle-faced, skinny guy his own show? I was probably watching another NBC program that was followed by and episode of Life and I didn't change the channel. Well, I watched one episode and I liked it. After the second episode, I was HOOKED. This show is well written and slightly quirky, the characters are well developed and far from perfect (gotta love that), and the storyline is great. I have to tell you, after watching a couple of episodes, I have completely changed my opinion of Damian Lewis. I actually find this man kinda hot, I sure do. You may be wondering what's wrong with me, but trust me - you have to watch to understand. I'd go out with Crews (his character) in a minute.

In the spirit of having something for everybody, this is his co-star, Sarah Shahi (Dani Reese). Yes, she's gorgeous.

Mardi Gras Facts

1. The first Mardi Gras in America was celebrated not in New Orleans, but in Mobile, Alabama, in 1703.

2. Mardi Gras season begins with January 6, the Twelfth Night Feast of the Epiphany (12 days after Christmas), which is the day the three Wise Men came to visit the Christ child.

3. The three colors of Mardi Gras are purple (justice), green (faith), and gold (power).

What would you like to know about Mardi Gras?

For More Info, click on the Mardi Gras label below.

Quote of the Day

“Whatever you hold in your mind will tend to occur in your life. If you
continue to believe as you have always believed, you will continue to act as you
have always acted. If you continue to act as you have always acted, you will
continue to get what you have always gotten. If you want different results in
your life or your work, all you have to do is change your mind.”

Unknown

Mardi Gras

It's that season, folks. Mardi Gras is upon us once again. This year the holiday will fall on February 24. It's always on a Tuesday, of course. I, for one, am looking very forward to it. My son and his girlfriend now live within walking distance from one of the biggest parades of the season, Endymion. From now until that time I will be posting several items about Mardi Gras. I hope you enjoy them all. Of course, if you'd like to share your experience please feel free to do so. It has been my experience that there are several different kinds of Mardi Gras in New Orleans.

If you've never experienced a New Orleans Mardi Gras, I hope these future posts will make you want to visit. I'll do my best to be as accurate as possible and will answer any questions to the best of my ability, Okay?

Until then, "Laissez les bon temps roulez!"

(That's, "Let the Good Times Roll!")

Wine Tasting for Beginners - The Glass

A good wine glass is designed to direct the wine to the part of your mouth where its flavors will be most appreciated, thus giving you full benefit of that particular wine.

The bowl of a wine glass is slightly narrower at its opening than at the bottom. This design intensifies the aromas rising toward the nose and mouth. All good wine glasses are designed this way. Due to their complex flavors and aromas, red wine glasses have a larger opening and a larger bowl, allowing the wine to receive more air and better oxidation, and the space for the taster to really get his/her nose in there to detect, and perhaps determine the source of its aromas.

In all types of wine glasses, the bowl has to be large enough for swirling, allowing for oxidation and a good release of the wine's aromas. Many people bypass swirling, including yours truly, but it is a very important part of the tasting. Basically, it releases all the good stuff, and don't we all want the good stuff?


Here's what I have learned so far:

For Red Wines:

A Burgundy glass (shown above) is for a light, full bodied wine such as a Pinot Noir. It is not as tall as a Bordeaux glass, but the bowl is larger, which directs the wine to the tip of the tongue, an area that appreciates the more delicate flavors of wine.

A Bordeaux glass is taller than a Burgundy, with a slightly smaller bowl, designed for full bodied, heavier red wines such as a Cabernets. The shape of this of the glass allows the wine to go to the back of the mouth, where its flavors would be most appreciated.

For White Wines:

A white wine glass bowl will straight and u-shaped, allowing the release of aromas without greatly disturbing the temperature.

For young whites, the best glass has a slightly larger opening, directing the wine to the parts of the tongue where sweetness is best detected, the sides and tip.

For more mature whites, the glass will be straighter and taller, which directs the wine to the back and sides of the tongue to where the stronger flavors will be most appreciated.

A sparkling wine/Champagne glass (or flute) will be pretty straight and narrow for carbonation retention and to enhance the flavor.

Dessert wine glasses are typically smaller to direct the wine to the back of the mouth so the sweetness doesn't overwhelm. Also, dessert wines usually contain more alcohol, so the smaller glass is ideal.

Wine Glass Material

In order for an accurate wine evaluation, a thin, smooth and clear glass is what you want. This type of glass allows you to see the color and feel the texture of your wine. Obviously, crystal would be a good choice as well. Blown glass is also nice and thin. Thick glass makes for awkward sipping.

Obviously, purchasing wine glasses for your personal use is one thing, but for hosting events such as a wine tasting, having the right amount and right type of wine glasses could prove to be quite expensive. I'm going to do some investigating, but off the top of my head, I'm thinking Tuesday Morning, one of my favorite places. Right after Katrina, while I was still pretending my life hadn't been turned upside down, I purchased four wine glasses from a Tuesday Morning in Baton Rouge. I loved those glasses. Later, when reality set in, those glasses would prove to be one of my best and most reliable friends. I am so serious. They may have been Bordeaux glasses. All I know is, they felt really good in my hand, and the glass was thin, which I liked, but I'm digressing, aren't I? I'll expand on that period of my life at a later date. Another place may be World Market. I believe in quality and value, and I'm a pretty good bargain hunter, so know this - I will be researching this matter and letting you know what I find.

Has this been helpful to you? I have certainly learned a few things. Remember, I know little about the wine tasting process, so if anyone who reads this has helpful suggestions, they are very welcomed.

Christian Bale - Do We Really Need This Guy?

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,487205,00.html

First, he attacks his mother and sister. A few days later he screams at, curses, belittles and bullies the photography director for walking on set while filming, and turns on any and everyone who tries to calm him down. I know a crew member walking on set is a major flub, but Bale's over-reaction is a reflection of how big a jerk he is, and I'm being nice. I don't know who he thinks he is, but methinks he is a celebrity with average talent and not even average looks. Perhaps someone should take him aside and let him know that upgrading him would present very little challenge. While they're at it, they can explain karma to him, if they can get him to stop screaming and listen.

The Neti Pot

I've had a Neti pot for several months and never used it. Friday I had some sinus issues, and my boss mentioned his wife uses hers with good results. That evening I came home, took mine out of the box and used it according to the directions. It was relatively easy to use, not very uncomfortable, nor was it very messy, provided it's used over a basin.

I was very pleased with the results. Immediately, my sinuses were clear and the pressure relieved. If you have sinus issues, I recommend this product. If you use it, let me know what you think.

Rush Limbaugh

Tell me what you think:

http://thinkprogress.org/2009/01/20/limbaugh-obama-fail/

Quote of the Day

The greatest discovery of any generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitude.

William James, Psychologist, leader of the philosophical movement of Pragmatism, 1842-1910.

Question

This is a little morbid but get past that, and I think you'll find it introspective. If you had the opportunity to write your own eulogy, what three things would you want people to want to remember most about you?

I Love This!

What do you think?

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Wine Tasting for Beginners

As you may know, a group of friends and I are having a wine tasting next month. As previously mentioned, I know very little about the art of a proper wine tasting. I am doing my research and will know whatever it is you're supposed to know as a beginning wine taster. I do know that wine is supposed to 'breathe' for a time before it is tasted, in order to receive the fullness of the aroma and flavor. I saw this wine aerator on the Today Show, and may give it a try. The one shown above is by Vinturi.

Have you tried a wine aerator? If you have, what do you think? If you haven't, would you try it?

Saturday

Today, DirecTV, who can still slide into the depths of hell, is coming here to fix the satellite signal. I'll believe it when I see it. Robert is installing some shelves and my air conditioner. After that's done, I plan on leaving the house and doing something relaxing.

What are you doing this weekend? How is the weather?

Quote for the day

"One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon-instead of enjoying the roses blooming outside our windows today."

- Dale Carnegie, American lecturer, author,1888-1955

It's the weekend! With all you have to do, are you doing something you enjoy?

Ever Have One of These?

At one point or another, we've all had one, either at work, in your neighborhood, or in your family. You know, that nosy, pesky catty person who's all in your business and everybody else's. How do you handle the Mrs. Kravitzes in your life? And why do you suppose they're this way?

Wine Tasting for Beginners

The Importance of Breathing

Wines, specifically red wines, develop certain characteristics during the aging process: Bouquet, which is the smell; and taste. The older the wine, the lesser the need for breathing, or oxidation (adding oxygen in exchange for electrons). Wine actually goes through a very slow oxidation process in the bottle. So, the younger the wine, the more breathing it requires. A very young wine needs to breathe for several hours before consumption, while an older wine needs perhaps one hour. In fact, if a very old wine breathes too long it can lose some of its important characteristics. In some instances, breathing alone will not be enough, and the wine has to be decanted, or poured into a different recepticle. The act of decanting wine (usually only necessary in very young wines) aerates the wine and releases aromas and flavors.

Paul Rudd - Morning Eye Candy

Okay, he's funny, gorgeous, and he doesn't take himself too seriously, something I find very attractive in a person. What's not to like? What do you think?

Quote for the Day

Attitude is more important than the past, than education, than money, than
circumstances, than what people do or say. It is more important than appearance,
giftedness, or skill.

W. C. Fields, American Comic and Actor, born on this day (1880 - 1946)

Ruby and the Romantics - Our Day Will Come

Today is my parents' anniversary. Had they lived, they would have been married 42 years.

I believe they are together now, two overjoyed spirits not beleaguered by the cares of this earth.

My dad loved his music, and it seemed he played a little of everything. There are a few special songs that remind me of both my parents for different reasons. They played this song very often when I was a little girl. As I got older, it became part of that category of songs for me where the lyrics are simple, but intense. Like much of the music of days gone by, there's an innocence you no longer hear in today's music:

Our day will come, and we'll have everything

We'll share the joy falling in love can bring...

... Our dreams have magic because we'll always stay in love this way

Our Day Will come...

So, here's to you, Mama & Daddy. I know you didn't drink, but I will be toasting you tonight, and I'll do it up right. I imagine now you're looking at each other, shaking your heads and laughing.

I'm cool with that.

Quote of the Day

“All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”

T.E. Lawrence, Intelligence officer best known as Lawrence of Arabia (later changed his name to T.E. Shaw), 1888-1935.

Random Stuff

I'm participating, for the first time, in WOTC with Monnie 'nem right now. Interesting. I'll probably be visiting again. I like smart people with something to say.

I went to the dentist today. I have to replace a crown and get my wisdom teeth pulled.

It is warm and muggy right now, and my air conditioner is not connected because, well, it is January, and I just didn't think I'd need air conditioning.

I'm supposed to have my satellite repaired Saturday. So far, DirecTV has offered me $100, free HD service for 6 months and reimbursement for being without use of the equipment. This is in response to my informing them I would be looking for service elsewhere, and telling them why. We'll see what happens. I still say DirecTV is shit, and I can back up everything I say.

I have a lot of posts coming up, but who the hell is going to see them? I'll continue doing what I do, but don't be surprised if I repeat posts in the future, 'kay?

I feel sleepy. Think it's because I've had 3 glasses of wine?

Talk to you tomorrow!

Daddy's Little Girls - Tyler Perry

I watched this move twice yesterday (making it about the 8th time I've seen it). I really enjoyed it, and I'm not that easy to please. Those girls - precious. That mama? Want to whip her a$$. Gabrielle Union? Adorable. Idris deserves a post all his own, so...

To be continued, but you understand, right? Thought so.

Monday, Monday

Good Morning Folks!

I spent the first night in my house since August 27, 2005. Yes, I am glad to be back in, but it 's one of those things that has to grow. The sounds and spatial factor may take some getting used to, as it was difficult to fall asleep. I am operating on three hours of sleep, and have on more makeup than a drag queen, but not as pretty. Cinzia and Sasha are acting a little weird, too. We'll all be fine.

Couple of notes:

Even though it's not complete, I LOVE my room. I like my area rug, love my floors, and,

I love, love, love my chaise!

Let me see if I can find a picture of one like mine. There it is. Obviously, I like the look of it, but Honey, sitting on it is like BUTTAH! The leather is soft, and the tufts are nice and deeply padded.

I wonder if I'll love the rest of my bedroom furniture as much.

What's going on with you today?

Wow

I scheduled this morning's quote several days ago. How did I know I would need it today?

I would say DirecTV's customer service sucks...

But they would have to improve for me to say that with a clear conscience. Thing is, they have the nerve to be polite while they insult your intelligence (they asked me if the box was plugged in), and very courteous while they transfer you over and over to what I have determined is the same effin department with a different name. Why else would every motherfcukin idiot I speak to ask me to do the same motherfcukin thing, even after I tell them I have done this twentyleven times? Someone was supposed to come to my house today at 5:30. I just got a call at work, at 2:30, from a technician who said he was at my house, outside. I called customer service and, surprise - they dont' even have a record of a service call, perhaps that's with another department. .

I am trying not to act a donkey with these people 'cause I want service on the tv in my bedroom tonight. It's really a challenge not to start yelling, but I'm supposed to be better than that. I'm supposed to be better than that. I am supposed to be better than that.

Let me not have service tonight.

Assholes!

Quote for Today

“Life is short and we never have enough time for gladdening the hearts of those
who travel the way with us. Oh, be swift to love! Make haste to be kind.”

- Henri Frederic Amiel, 1821 - 1881, Swiss writer known for his masterpiece Journal Intime

Take the time to make someone happy today. Be pleasant. This is advice I may need you to repeat to me later.